The Pathfinder Founder Chelsey Brooke: 'Listen to your intuition'
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Chelsey Brooke is a professional counselor and Pathfinder Coach specializing in helping introverts build self-trust and self-confidence to create healthy relationships and a purposeful career.
As far back as I can remember, I have always wanted to help people. So becoming a coach and a counselor were very natural career paths for me. I’m grateful and honored to help people in both my coaching and counseling practice to find ways to create a clear direction for their lives. In short, as The Pathfinder I help introverts build self-trust and self-confidence to create healthy relationships and a purposeful career. As far as specific challenges, I think that has to do with overcoming my own negative self-talk and inner critic about who I am and what I can do. Through my own life and through working with many highly successful people, no matter the level of outward success we achieve, we are all susceptible to getting in our own way. Overcoming my own self-doubts and learning to own who I am were my biggest challenges, but also my biggest areas of growth. And because of this, I can relate to my clients and say “I get it, I’ve been there. Now, here’s what to do.” So I’m grateful even for the challenges, because they make me a better person for myself and better coach and counselor for my clients.
Yes, I am the sole owner of The Pathfinder, LLC. However, I quickly hired help. As with any business, it takes a highly skilled and qualified team to keep it running and moving forward with new and innovative ideas!
Now more than ever, we are beginning to acknowledge introverts and realize their value in the workplace. Working environments are not (or shouldn’t be) a “one size fits all” place. HR plays a key role in many ways to help improve morale, increase profitability and create powerful insights for business owners and leaders.
Three key opportunities or roles of HR now and in the future are:
I have a client-valued based business. First, I identified the services (counseling/coaching). Then, I created an avatar of my ideal client to get really clear on his/her specific needs, wants and goals. Finally, I learned specific ways in which to relate to my niche and made sure my messaging was clear and directly spoke to my ideal client.
Of course, luck and chance can happen to everyone. But, overall, I believe it’s your work ethic and mindset that get you where you want to go.
My goals for 2021 include creating more content, writing an e-book (or two!) and continuing to grow my services and network to help more people.
I would tell myself to give more grace and self-compassion. Being an entrepreneur is not always easy. It takes a lot of your time and if you’re not passionate about your business, you can burn out quickly. Especially since I tend to be a ‘perfectionist’ I have to be really conscious to engage in self-care and not to push myself to overwhelm. Ultimately, learning to trust myself and meet my own needs has changed not only my personal life, but my professional life as well.
The woman who has had the biggest impact on my life would definitely be my mom. Regardless of her struggles, she keeps a smile on her face and continues to be the most caring and compassionate person I know. Her sensitivity to and awareness of others’ needs is incomparable and it’s this type of kindness that truly heals all.
I always have a growing and evolving list! Right now, it’s Matthew Pollard’s The Introvert’s Edge and Holley Gerth’s The Powerful Purpose of Introverts.
To listen to your intuition. You know your passion and you know the direction you need to go if you will just sit quietly with yourself and listen to that inner voice. Believe in yourself. Each individual has overcome things and we all have lessons and gifts that others need. Never be afraid to share your story - it’s exactly what your audience needs to hear.